Imagine if you were invited to a fancy cocktail party where you didn’t know anyone.
When you got there you realised that everyone was
Significantly richer than you
Better dressed than you
Probably really smug
How would you feel?
Possibly a little intimidated?
A bit concerned how well you’d fit in?
Maybe scared of making a fool of yourself…
For many people this is a absolute nightmare
You might just mutter “fuck it” and turn around and walk right out of there
Unless of course you knew the simple secret to be confident
People don’t give a shit about you, they give a shit about themselves
It’s not, it’s great
When you’re thinking, “I hope nobody thinks I’m boring, ugly or stupid.”
Other people are thinking, “I hope this new person finds me interesting, attractive and smart.”
People are much too concerned with themselves to be concerned with you.
So, how can you use this to your advantage?
You can use the No1 most interesting conversation piece ever
The other person.
Hey, that’s really interesting, I bet you have a really great job
You look amazing in your dress, red really suits you
I never thought of it that way, you’re really smart!
Maybe, but who cares, it works.
Practice those two things and you’ll never struggle again
If you’re shy or nervous to interact you’re going to miss out
There’s no two ways about it
If you find yourself wanting, so badly, to get involved but can’t bring
yourself to get the words out
Message me and let’s work on changing that