Never Too Late

Imagine you were 20 years old
You sat down and made a plan for your life
You decided upon half a dozen things you were going to achieve in two decades
And you spent all of your time working towards those things
You changed some of them over the years
But not once did you short-change your future self
In fact because you acted on your goals every day
And reviewed your progress so regularly
You made more progress than you originally planned
When you turn 40…
✅ You’re the envy of your buddies
✅ You don’t have to work for a boss, you’re the boss
✅ You don’t scrape by
✅ You didn’t panic when the virus hit
✅ You’re not stressed
✅ You’re incredibly optimistic about the future 🥂
Now, imagine you didn’t do none of that shit when you were 20
Instead you just partied all the time, worked a crap job
You fell into a couple of promotions
Life’s ok, but you’re unsure about the future
Can you give your kids everything you want?
Can you give YOURSELF everything you want?
Yeah, you can
Do what you should have done 20 years ago
But you’re in an even BETTER position now
You sowed your oats
You drank all the beer/prosecco
You don’t have to worry about those distractions
Just don’t wait another 20 years to pull your finger out of your ass
Want some help?
Let’s talk
R

It’s Not COVID Making You Miserable

What’s making you miserable are your memories and your expectations

What’s come before and what you believe will happen in the future

We can break that down further and just say that it’s the things you are thinking that are preventing your happiness

Imagine how you would feel if you could stop those bad memories from popping up

Or if you could stop fretting about what might happen in the future

How much happier would you be?

My book, High Fiving the Universe, outlines how to do this in simple terms

Even better, it’s free for my buddies and it’s not some lame 10 page PDF either, it’s an actual proper book.

The Secret to Mega Self-Confidence in ANY Social Situation

Imagine if you were invited to a fancy cocktail party where you didn’t know anyone.
 
When you got there you realised that everyone was
 
✅Significantly richer than you
✅Better dressed than you
✅Probably really smug
 
How would you feel?
 
Possibly a little intimidated?
 
A bit concerned how well you’d fit in?
 
Maybe scared of making a fool of yourself…
 
For many people this is a absolute nightmare
 
You might just mutter “fuck it” and turn around and walk right out of there
 
Unless of course you knew the simple secret to be confident
 
Anywhere
 
With anyone
 
Which is…
 
People don’t give a shit about you, they give a shit about themselves 😲
 
That’s it
 
Sound cynical?
 
It’s not, it’s great
 
When you’re thinking, “I hope nobody thinks I’m boring, ugly or stupid.”
 
Other people are thinking, “I hope this new person finds me interesting, attractive and smart.”
 
People are much too concerned with themselves to be concerned with you.
So, how can you use this to your advantage?
 
You can use the No1 most interesting conversation piece ever
 
The other person.
 
😻 Hey, that’s really interesting, I bet you have a really great job
😻 You look amazing in your dress, red really suits you
😻 I never thought of it that way, you’re really smart!
 
Sound cheesy?
 
Sound easy?
 
Maybe, but who cares, it works.
 
Practice those two things and you’ll never struggle again
 
One mindset
 
One strategy
 
If you’re shy or nervous to interact you’re going to miss out
 
There’s no two ways about it
 
If you find yourself wanting, so badly, to get involved but can’t bring
yourself to get the words out
 
Message me and let’s work on changing that
 
R

Fear of Failure

When you fail or make a mistake
You believe that it says something about you
That, at the very core of your being

You’re not good enough

You’re unworthy

You’re worse than other people who didn’t fail

You know what I’m going to say here, right?
Obviously that’s all complete crap
It doesn’t mean anything about you
Except for one thing

You tried
You made the attempt
You got up off your fat ass and did something

🍑

When you look at it that way
You should be more terrified of not failing
Nobody succeeds first time at everything
Competence takes effort!
Imagine never failing
You’d be a drooling idiot
You would have learned NOTHING
At High School I put in zero effort
Because it was all easy
I never failed
And then when I went to University
I was that drooling idiot
I had learned NOTHING
Because I hadn’t tried before that

🤷

Enough of my failures

Here’s what you can do to smash the fear of failure…
Start failing
Take that funny feeling in your gut
That apprehension
The worry of “what if”
And make it your signal to GO GO GO!
And then when you fail, learn from it
Take a moment to appreciate what happened and what you can do better next time

Then you can join the ranks of such epic failures as Thomas Edison, Walt Disney, JK Rowling
Total losers like that
Who failed miserably but didn’t give enough of a shit to let it stop them
When you become indifferent to failure
Even welcome it
You will be INVINCIBLE

In my 1:1 program, The Confidence to WIN, I teach my clients how to take the fear of failure and turn it into a lust for success, a massive desire for achievement
No more dithering
No more doubt
Action
Drop me a message and let’s chat

R

Why Being Right Is Often An Indicator Of Low Self-Esteem

Why Being Right Is Often An Indicator Of Low Self-Esteem

If you’ve ever voiced an opinion on Social Media

You know this to be true:

There’s always someone who will tell you that you’re wrong

Here’s the fun part

If you have even a small amount of self-awarenessYou’ll know that:

You can’t change someone’s mind by arguing at them

Nobody gives a shit about proof

Nobody cares what you think anyway

So arguing is a waste of time

I much prefer

Stating my opinion

Reading your opinion

Living a happy life

If your opinion is different to mine

Big fucking deal

If you have low self-esteem however

You need to PROVE yourself right and bend other people to your way of thinking

You’ll try to be clever and foolishly believe other people are reading your words and thinking “o o he’s intelligent”

You’ll put laugh emojis on imagining that anyone gives a shit

And maybe some people do give a shit, but they’ve also got low self-esteem and need to prove themselves in the court of public opinion

People with high self-esteem are prepared to be wrong

For multiple reasons but the one that’s germane here

Is that being wrong doesn’t impact how they feel about themselves

They don’t need to prove themselves because they have great self-worth

Their self-esteem doesn’t come from what they THINK other people believe of them

But from what they KNOW of themselves

This is one of the first major mindset breakthroughs I teach my 1:1 clients in my 3 month coaching course, the Confidence to WIN. I not only help you uncover false beliefs that keep you back, but empower you to decide what you are going to believe about yourself

Send me a message if you’d like to have a quick chat about how you can create unstoppable self-belief and change your life forever.

2020 Foresight

Get What You Want

Dear Friend,

❓Did you meet your 2019 Goals?

Or did you leave them by the wayside, along with your dreams?

❓Have you started 2020 with the same enthusiasm as 2019?

And already find it waning?

❓Are you terrified that you’re going to repeat the same cycle yet again?

Never getting what you want

😭😭😭

𝘐𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘴 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶, 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘮𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘮𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘢𝘨𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘭𝘭 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘥 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳

Here’s why:

I was once where you are

Eager and full of spirit

Yet unsure and lacking self-belief

I procrastinated

Year after year

𝘐𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘴 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶, 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘮𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵“𝘐’𝘭𝘭 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘱 𝘴𝘮𝘰𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘐’𝘮 30”

“𝘐’𝘭𝘭 𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘧𝘪𝘵 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘐’𝘮 34”

“𝘐’𝘭𝘭 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘢𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘫𝘰𝘣 𝘪𝘯 𝘢 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘱𝘭𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘮𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘩𝘴”

And nothing ever happened

I didn’t ever do any of that stuff

And every year I felt like a bigger and bigger loser

But, you know, eventually the pain of where you are becomes more intolerable

Than the pain of moving forward

🔥🔥🔥

And now I’m right here

I achieve the goals I set

And not only because I set easy goals that I can easily achieve

But I raise myself to the level of the goals that I set

And employ the magic ingredient of perseverance

🔥🔥🔥

I’d like to offer you my process of goal-setting

And, most importantly, goal-achievement

𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝟮𝟬𝟮𝟬

It’s a 4 Step Process

🎯#1) Create Goals For Yourself

We get clarity on what you really want and put in place objectives for you to achieve that

🎯#2) Build a Strategy

No business would succeed without a decent strategy and I’ve got an excellent one that you can use. We will personalize it and use it to smash all barriers

🎯#3) Success Mindset

We pinpoint the precise thoughts and attitudes you will need to adopt for your specific goals. And then we take action.

🎯#4) Go Until You Get There

This isn’t for quitters. I’ll share with you my instant state-change strategy so you can instantly become motivated, destroy procrastination and time-wasting habits, and keep going until you get there.

Never again will you have to look back over your previous 12 months and cringe 🙈

To facilitate these steps here’s what you’ll get:

✅3 1-on-1 Coaching Calls (normal price £300)

✅“Goal Setting Mastery” – My 10 step plan to ultimate success

✅I Am Unstoppable – An incredibly powerful and unique self-affirmation program

Here’s what some recent clients have mentioned about my programs

“𝘐 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘭𝘺 𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘱𝘰𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵-𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘷𝘰𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘨𝘳𝘢𝘮𝘮𝘦. 𝘐 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘨𝘨𝘭𝘦𝘥 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧-𝘣𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘧 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧-𝘥𝘰𝘶𝘣𝘵. 𝘍𝘰𝘭𝘭𝘰𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘱𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘨𝘳𝘢𝘮𝘮𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘥 𝘶𝘱 𝘴𝘰 𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘧𝘰𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴… 𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘸𝘢𝘴 𝘢 𝘣𝘳𝘪𝘭𝘭𝘪𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘶𝘤𝘩-𝘯𝘦𝘦𝘥𝘦𝘥 𝘳𝘦𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳 𝘰𝘧 𝘸𝘩𝘺 𝘐 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘣𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘐 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦, 𝘢𝘯 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘮𝘺𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧! 𝘐 𝘩𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘭𝘺 𝘣𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘷𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘴 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘣𝘭𝘦. 𝘐𝘵’𝘴 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘢 𝘤𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 ‘𝘐 𝘢𝘮’ 𝘨𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘦𝘯!”

“𝘐 𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘙𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘰𝘭𝘥 𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘸𝘰 𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘢𝘨𝘰 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘪𝘵 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘦𝘥 𝘮𝘦 𝘥𝘳𝘢𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺. 𝘐 𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘸𝘦𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘐 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵, 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘱𝘱𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘮𝘰𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘧𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 𝘢 𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘫𝘰𝘣 𝘐 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦. 𝘕𝘰𝘸 𝘐’𝘮 𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘩𝘪𝘮 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯.”

“𝘐 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘐 𝘸𝘢𝘴 𝘢𝘯 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘳𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘵 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘐 𝘮𝘦𝘵 𝘙𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘦𝘯𝘳𝘰𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘥 𝘪𝘯 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘤𝘰𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦. 𝘐’𝘥 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘮𝘢𝘥𝘦 𝘳𝘦𝘥𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘸𝘢𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘢 𝘣𝘪𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘢 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘵𝘦. 𝘐 𝘸𝘢𝘴 𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘭𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘢𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘪𝘯 𝘮𝘺𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧. 𝘈𝘭𝘮𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘭𝘺, 𝘙𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘩𝘢𝘥 𝘮𝘦 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘺 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘵𝘦, 𝘴𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘨𝘰𝘢𝘭𝘴, 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘺, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘱𝘦𝘰𝘱𝘭𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘧𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦. 𝘐𝘵 𝘴𝘦𝘦𝘮𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘰 𝘴𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘦 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘨𝘶𝘪𝘥𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘐 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘦 𝘫𝘰𝘣𝘭𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘭𝘦. 𝘐 𝘨𝘰𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘯𝘦𝘹𝘵 𝘫𝘰𝘣 𝘐 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘷𝘪𝘦𝘸𝘦𝘥 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘨𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘮𝘦 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘯 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘧𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘺 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘐 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘣𝘦 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘥 𝘰𝘧.”

The cost of Foresight 2020 is less than you would expect and barely much more than the cost of a single coaching session with me

I’m not going to bore you any more, so DM me now for more info

Act soon, I’m only doing this special deal in January to help people get the boost they need in the New Year

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