The Secret to Mega Self-Confidence in ANY Social Situation

Imagine if you were invited to a fancy cocktail party where you didn’t know anyone.
When you got there you realised that everyone was
✅Significantly richer than you
✅Better dressed than you
✅Probably really smug
How would you feel?
Possibly a little intimidated?
A bit concerned how well you’d fit in?
Maybe scared of making a fool of yourself…
For many people this is a absolute nightmare
You might just mutter “fuck it” and turn around and walk right out of there
Unless of course you knew the simple secret to be confident
With anyone
Which is…
People don’t give a shit about you, they give a shit about themselves 😲
That’s it
Sound cynical?
It’s not, it’s great
When you’re thinking, “I hope nobody thinks I’m boring, ugly or stupid.”
Other people are thinking, “I hope this new person finds me interesting, attractive and smart.”
People are much too concerned with themselves to be concerned with you.
So, how can you use this to your advantage?
You can use the No1 most interesting conversation piece ever
The other person.
😻 Hey, that’s really interesting, I bet you have a really great job
😻 You look amazing in your dress, red really suits you
😻 I never thought of it that way, you’re really smart!
Sound cheesy?
Sound easy?
Maybe, but who cares, it works.
Practice those two things and you’ll never struggle again
One mindset
One strategy
If you’re shy or nervous to interact you’re going to miss out
There’s no two ways about it
If you find yourself wanting, so badly, to get involved but can’t bring
yourself to get the words out
Message me and let’s work on changing that

Fear of Failure

When you fail or make a mistake
You believe that it says something about you
That, at the very core of your being

You’re not good enough

You’re unworthy

You’re worse than other people who didn’t fail

You know what I’m going to say here, right?
Obviously that’s all complete crap
It doesn’t mean anything about you
Except for one thing

You tried
You made the attempt
You got up off your fat ass and did something


When you look at it that way
You should be more terrified of not failing
Nobody succeeds first time at everything
Competence takes effort!
Imagine never failing
You’d be a drooling idiot
You would have learned NOTHING
At High School I put in zero effort
Because it was all easy
I never failed
And then when I went to University
I was that drooling idiot
I had learned NOTHING
Because I hadn’t tried before that


Enough of my failures

Here’s what you can do to smash the fear of failure…
Start failing
Take that funny feeling in your gut
That apprehension
The worry of “what if”
And make it your signal to GO GO GO!
And then when you fail, learn from it
Take a moment to appreciate what happened and what you can do better next time

Then you can join the ranks of such epic failures as Thomas Edison, Walt Disney, JK Rowling
Total losers like that
Who failed miserably but didn’t give enough of a shit to let it stop them
When you become indifferent to failure
Even welcome it
You will be INVINCIBLE

In my 1:1 program, The Confidence to WIN, I teach my clients how to take the fear of failure and turn it into a lust for success, a massive desire for achievement
No more dithering
No more doubt
Drop me a message and let’s chat