If you’ve ever voiced an opinion on Social Media
You know this to be true:
There’s always someone who will tell you that you’re wrong
Here’s the fun part
If you have even a small amount of self-awarenessYou’ll know that:
You can’t change someone’s mind by arguing at them
Nobody gives a shit about proof
Nobody cares what you think anyway
So arguing is a waste of time
I much prefer
Stating my opinion
Reading your opinion
Living a happy life
If your opinion is different to mine
Big fucking deal
If you have low self-esteem however
You need to PROVE yourself right and bend other people to your way of thinking
You’ll try to be clever and foolishly believe other people are reading your words and thinking “o o he’s intelligent”
You’ll put laugh emojis on imagining that anyone gives a shit
And maybe some people do give a shit, but they’ve also got low self-esteem and need to prove themselves in the court of public opinion
People with high self-esteem are prepared to be wrong
For multiple reasons but the one that’s germane here
Is that being wrong doesn’t impact how they feel about themselves
They don’t need to prove themselves because they have great self-worth
Their self-esteem doesn’t come from what they THINK other people believe of them
But from what they KNOW of themselves
This is one of the first major mindset breakthroughs I teach my 1:1 clients in my 3 month coaching course, the Confidence to WIN. I not only help you uncover false beliefs that keep you back, but empower you to decide what you are going to believe about yourself
Send me a message if you’d like to have a quick chat about how you can create unstoppable self-belief and change your life forever.